Even though I'm thousands of miles from home (here in Chiang Mai Thailand) people do not react well to my rejection. Why is that? Who am I that my opinion should matter so fucking much.
Get a life!
I know what rejection is like. I've been rejected. My feelings have been hurt, -------------------- and then I got on with my life.
I can only deduce that most people are leading lives filled with pain and misery. When in pain and miserable people tend to over react, I've done that on many occasion so I speak/write from experience. A little hurt become a big hurt, and because misery loves company, miserable people want to reach out and share their misery.
There is another option, the miserable people could expend their energies on making themselves happy? Why do they not do this? This is a valid question. Why do miserable people do nothing to fix the misery? It's difficult to understand. I find it difficult to understand. If you have the means at your disposal to change your mental state, why not work on change?
Some people just want to be miserable. I think many people are told they must live their lives in a particular manner even if it makes them miserable. They get programmed one way and cannot find the strength or courage to chart another course.
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There is another option, the miserable people could expend their energies on making themselves happy? Why do they not do this? This is a valid question. Why do miserable people do nothing to fix the misery? It's difficult to understand. I find it difficult to understand. If you have the means at your disposal to change your mental state, why not work on change?
Some people just want to be miserable. I think many people are told they must live their lives in a particular manner even if it makes them miserable. They get programmed one way and cannot find the strength or courage to chart another course.
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